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DEAR AMY: Recently, my biological father emailed me to say he’d like to get to know me. We’ve never met. He is 81, I am 64. He had long denied that I’m his son, and until recently had been very hostile to any attempt on my part to be in touch. Decades ago, I did some research on him and decided that I knew enough and moved on. He was a successful businessman and is the patriarch of a large family. I am also successful in my work and happy with life and my large family. I have politely responded to his emails, but I have decided that I am not interested in an email relationship with a near-comp…